Women like to create a sense of mystery, and you should be conveying this yourself, too. When a guy says this to us on a first date, it gives us the impression that he is “testing the waters” because he is unsure if we will agree.
The conversation will flow easier and far more naturally if you really listen instead of thinking ahead of yourself for the next thing to say!
Women want to be with a guy who has a sense of certainty in what he does and in what choices he makes.
Pity is not a strong foundation to build attraction on.
Even for the most talkative of women, this can feel a little overwhelming.
And this starts with knowing how to go on first dates.