It’s been said that narcissism is one of the most difficult mental disorders to diagnose, for a few reasons; first, Narcissists tend to believe there is nothing wrong with them, so they do not admit to having problems and don’t seek help in the first place.
Second, they are masters at appearing normal to the therapist.
Any boundaries you have set up are merely challenges to a narcissist. He will take it as a personal victory when he ends up “changing your mind” in just a few days. He will bug and cajole you until you set up a date.
Anytime you say no, they will find a way to change your mind, and do it in such a way you think it was actually your idea.
And for victims of a narcissist, who have been brainwashed into thinking their relationship is fine and THEY are the problem, they may not be able to see their partners behaviors clearly identified in the following definition.
further information HERE Narcissists will do everything they can to woo you.
In reality, he is just no longer wearing the mask and is showing his true self to you.