” ― Anonymous In a big way, these external symbols become pivotal parts of the narcissist’s false identity, replacing the real and injured self. They expect others to cater (often instantly) to their needs, without being considerate in return. However, once they lose interest in you (most likely after they’ve gotten what they want, or became bored), they may drop you without a second thought. Thinking of oneself as a hero or heroine, a prince or princess, or one of a kind special person. Many narcissists enjoy spreading and arousing negative emotions to gain attention, feel powerful, and keep you insecure and off-balance.
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I thought I wouldn’t hear from him again but not long after telling him this he went away for a lads holiday and while he was away he has been texting me (nice texts as well as dirty texts). Should I walk away before I get hurt or should I continue to be his fuckbuddy?
He’s back in a few days and wants to meet up for a bit of fun when he gets back.
So even though there is quite some game-playing you need to do to get him to fall for you, which he will eventually do because if he’s willing to sleep with you, I can almost guarantee that if you play it right then he’ll be willing to date you as well, or at least will be tricked into it.
Nonetheless, if you think all of this isn’t worth it and this guy isn’t someone you want to waste energy on, then as I said in the beginning, you can continue being his fuck-buddy, or you can just forget about him completely by telling him that what he’s offering (just sex) isn’t enough to satisfy you and you don’t think you should continue doing it.
Also, if you see he’s distancing himself from you because he may see through what you’re doing, then use sex to your advantage and give him a taste of some sexual contact, but don’t deliver completely.