If you would have asked someone you know to go out for drinks, that would have been very difficult to say that it’s not a date, which is why goes well, you’ll likely start texting each other a couple of times a day.I might add that texting is the preferred channel of communication with Swedish guys.*A couple of years ago there was a hit hip-hop song that played on this.
Many people regard those who only hang out in the bar as suspicious*. If you catch somebody’s eye, and the two of you look at each other for more than a second, then you’re good to start dancing with each other (at this point, you don’t even have to ask about the dance, you both know it’s coming).
From the moment the two of you start dancing, the rules aren’t as strict as before.
Girls, don’t read anything into it if the guy doesn’t pay, you’re expected to split the bill in the name of equality.
If you want to ask out someone that you already know, from work for example, you usually skip the night out and go directly to the This is because the concept of a date almost doesn’t exist in Sweden.
Depending on your moves and all-around charm, you might just share that one dance, or you might even spend the night together.