Pro tip: You need to be careful when browsing girls pictures, as some will be filtered using Instagram or taken at funny angles to hide how fat/spotty/dark they are.
It is not uncommon for people to meet up for a date only to find the girl 10lbs overweight and nothing like she was in the pictures.
If you are ever unsure you can always ask the girl you’re chatting with, but don’t just come right out and and ask them if they are a Thai bar girl, because that will annoy them greatly.
Say something along the lines of : I am sorry to ask this, because I think you’re not, but are you a Bar girl?
You must also remember that the average Thai doesn’t have much disposable income, so visiting bars and clubs won’t be on the agenda for them every week.
There is a whole un-tapped market currently on these dating sites, Thai friendly being the most popular and successful.
Don’t say how much money you have, how much you earn, I would even go as far to say don’t spend money around her on anything but cheap food for the first few weeks.