A whisper is only visible to you and the person it was sent to.
Our chat software is still in beta phase and this is a bug, of which we are aware of and will be fixed in the next coming updates. It is very likely that we will add voice chat feature in the near future, but regarding "video chat" we are yet to come to a decision .
After entering the chat you will be presented with a list of chat rooms to select from, similar to what is displayed in the above image.
Right side will show list of members who are present in that room.
Clicking a members names in the right side list will show the "user options" as shown in the image above and each option is explained below.
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