At this point, instead of him feeling like he’s connecting with you, he feels like you’re trying to get something out of him.Maybe it’s reassurance or validation, or maybe just more of the feeling of being OK.
But it’s there and it comes across, even in the slightest ways.
It changes your vibe and your energy and guys feel this.
Either you notice that he starts to pull away and seems less engaged (commonly known as “the fade away”), or he just vanishes (a phenomenon known as “ghosting”). When a girl loses interest in a guy after a few dates, she can usually pinpoint the reason.
Maybe he was too desperate, not intellectually stimulating, too quiet, too loud, too boring, too boisterous–she usually knows exactly what it is that turned her off and can give a reason as to why she doesn’t want to continue dating him if asked.
Think about how you feel when someone approaches you and tries to sell something.