Visit my Consultations page and choose your session(s) or package(s) from the drop-down menu. Over the next few weeks I will review them all, but let’s start with this one: Let him lead! ) One of those painting classes that are all the rage right now Switch out that summer wardrobe for the winter one or vice versa Brunch Hiking in the woods to enjoy the fresh air Visit the family Join a Meetup- they have a lot of singles’ mixers See if there’s something on your bucket list you can check off or plan for Reread The Rules What woman is interested in sitting around waiting for a last-minute invitation to do something on Saturday night? Friends to see, other men to date, hobbies, classes!
In fact, my best friend is engaged and planning her wedding to a wonderful man thanks to The Rules! Long story short, it was NOT a Rules beginning, nor is it a Rules relationship. If he loves you, he doesn’t buy you something he would buy his grandmother.
(My prediction: I will be wearing red and carrying roses. Now, you can have a semi-decent relationship without The Rules, but I was SO disheartened to hear the way he is treating her: neglecting her, taking her for granted, rolling in money but making her spilt everything, threatening to take HER dog if she breaks up with him, accusing her of being a “slut” because he “accidentally opened” her journal and read about a romantic relationship that came before him. One of my friends recently confided in me that when her boyfriend is nice, he’s NICE. He’s mean, makes underhanded comments, calls her names, accuses (with no proof, just paranoia) her of trash-talking him to her friends (Um… ), and holds her to complete double standards: he can flirt with other women IN FRONT OF HER all he wants, but she’s not even allowed to hang out with her male friends of 20 years. He loves me: He planned ahead/scheduled me well in advance of Valentine’s Day. She gets the silk scarf and/or bouquet of daisies; you get the heart necklace and/or a dozen red roses.
If he thinks about you during the week, can’t wait to see you, and is worried you might be whisked away by another man, he will pin you down so you’re definitely his date on Saturday night!
He will research the restaurant so you’re sure to like it.
I am thrilled to be here to answer your dating scene questions and spread this wealth of knowledge known as The Rules (TM).