If you knew the exact date in the future when you’ll meet your match, you’d probably feel pretty OK about your life right now. But since neither of us knows that, let’s see what else we can do… Step one – change your thoughts: do a reality check. That will make you feel less hopeless and helpless. The more you feel you are in control of your life – the happier you feel, the better you look, the more you smile, the more fun you have. As you do that, you’ll start attracting a much more interesting bunch of people in your life. People get drawn to your energy, liveliness, your confidence, your spark.
What grounds you have to believe you will stay single? If you get what you want in other areas of life, you will feel more confident you can do it in your love life as well. If you are unhappy in your job – look for one that will make you feel better. When you feel you are in the right place, and you believe love can happen for you: the right partner will come, without a doubt.
Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.
For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare.
Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.
So I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.
It is hard for one’s true personality to translate when speaking another language, but luckily I am a fluent Spanish speaker and have learned enough Paisa slang to be my witty self.